“Stop making life easy for your “Baby daddy”. It’s not your responsibility to carry his part of the responsibilities of supporting your kids-You shouldn’t feel guilty about forcing him to “Man Up”. He/She owes it to his/her kid(s) to support them. Stop enabling him, and help him be a better man by not cutting him any slack. Stop making excuses for him period. Stop allowing him to make you feel guilty for putting your foot down“.